It can be very hard to deal with difficult teenagers because frankly, the way they think can sometimes be hard to understand. Do remember that reacting with violence will only make difficult teenagers become more hostile and acting too kind will make you a pushover. The best way to deal with this is by making your authority known to them yet at the same time, show them how much you love and care for them. Remember that trying to talk to teenagers who do not want to talk will only make things worse. Be aware of the things that they are trying to say through their actions and their words. If you are quick enough, you would be able to spot what your teenager is going through and how you can reach out. Be patient because it will pay off in the end.
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