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Where it all started

My journey to writing HIV/AIDS stories in the newspaper began from a photo exhibit at a popular mall in Mandaluyong City, which I have attended sometime in April 2002.

The photo exhibit was mounted by leading documentary photographers and HIV/AIDS specialists. They came up with the project to help the public learn, understand and appreciate the lives of men, women and children living with or affected by the incurable disease worldwide.

The exhibit, dubbed “Positive Lives Caravan: HIV/AIDS in the Philippines,” is a photographic exhibit that contains 120 photos from Japan, Korea, China, India, Bangladesh, Thailand, Malaysia, Cambodia and the Philippines.

The exhibit depicts the struggle of people living with the incurable disease and how they conduct their daily lives. It attempts to highlight that people with HIV can lead a normal life just like any other individuals.

A nameless photo of an Asian woman with HIV tells, “It (HIV) is there all the time, I always think about it, even when I am sleeping. I worry about what will happen to my daughter when I go.”

From the caravan, I met Joshua Formentera, he is (was) the president and executive director of the Positive Action Foundation Philippines Inc., a non-government organization, run by volunteers, both HIV and non-HOV positives, since 1998.

Joshua is HIV positive, a professional, and willing to share his story sans the pseudonym to conceal his true identity. You won’t need barcode scanners to identify him.

From the exclusive interview with Joshua lead me to do a series of stories with other people living with HIV/AIDS, most landed on the front page of our newspaper. And the rest, so they say, is history…

AIDS advocacy

(Last of a series)

HIV warrior Luigi, 19, has reached the last stage of the grief cycle. After blind denial and rage, he has finally accepted his fate. He is now in the process of healing himself and other people living with AIDS. 

Luigi is currently devoting his time in completing his Nursing studies this year. His ultimate goal is to serve people with HIV/AIDS, specially in the last stages of their lives.

“I am here to save people at risk of having the same illness that I have now. I would like to serve as an inspiration so others may be spared,” reads a message posted by Luigi on the Net.

Luigi’s perception in life took a 360-degree turn with HIV.

“Dati, wala akong iniisip kundi ang mag-abroad, kumita ng pera ’pag naging nurse ako. Now, I’m urging my co-students to value life and their patients more than the comforts and benefits the nursing profession might offer them,” the former altar boy said.

Luigi is currently supporting the Department of Education in its advocacy to include sex education in the curriculum of high school students. The proposal will highlight HIV/AIDS/STI and other major diseases.

“If there will be no serious campaign, what will happen to the youth sector? Panawagan ko po na mag-allot ng three-hour lecture sa loob ng isang linggo for HIV/AIDS/STI and other major diseases such as tuberculosis. It would be a big help to increase the awareness of our young people,” he said, adding that developed countries have already included information on major diseases in their school curriculum.

Luigi stressed that young people should be provided with informed choices because they have the right to health.

“Through sexual health, malalaman nila na ang HIV/AIDS ay hindi dapat pagtawanan. Dapat siyang bigyan ng pansin dahil wala siyang gamot and it will cost a lot kapag tinamaan ka nito… ”

The DepEd recently included lectures in school on adolescent reproductive health and reproductive rights. This was slammed by the Catholic Church, which claimed that exposing students to vulgar terms and languages is a form of child abuse.

The Catholic prelates insist that it’s the sole right and responsibility of parents to teach sex education to their children.

While Luigi is against the Catholic Chuch’s stand opposing sex education, he is one with them in saying that teaching children about sex should start at home.

“I’m not saying na mahina ang foundation ko sa family ko, pero never akong tinuruan ng mga ganyan. And I don’t remember I was taught about sex in high school,” Luigi said.

Luigi said he will continue posting messages in the chatroom as long as there is a need to convince people to practice safe sex and stop the spread of HIV.

“They don’t have to experience what I’m going through. I hope they will learn from me. Sana sa pamamagitan ng ginagawa ko ngayon ay makatulong ako sa bansang ito at sa dulo masabi ko ‘Consummatum est,’ mamamatay akong masaya,” Luigi said.

Luigi is presently residing in the US where he is completing his master’s degree. He is a registered nurse.